You wrote the email. Then rewrote it. Then sat there with the cursor blinking, wondering whether to send it at all.

Not because you didn’t know what to say. Because the moment required you to back yourself… and that old voice got there first.

It was never a capability problem.

Comparison isn’t a confidence problem for women in leadership - it’s a time problem. It slows decisions, fuels overthinking, and quietly drains momentum.

You’re getting things done. You’re showing up. You’re doing what’s required of you. And yet… it still feels like you’re barely keeping your head above water.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why does this feel so hard when I’m doing everything right?” … keep reading.

We don't repeat patterns because they help us - we repeat them because, on some level, they protect us.

Ever caught yourself in a cycle of self-sacrifice, so everyone else can have the best? Yeah, that’s the “burnt toast mindset”, and it’s not doing you any favours.

A dictum is someone who acts like a d*ck and gets stuck in victim mode. It’s that blend of crappy behaviour and playing the "poor me" card all at once.

Therapy doesn’t have to be sitting across the room from someone, hands folded in your lap, with your therapist nodding approvingly while taking notes. Sure, that’s how it’s often portrayed, but it doesn’t have to be like that. This is why I do therapy with a twist.

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